Waiting For Him To Call You Or Message You?

Some food for thought when you’re waiting for him to call you or message you:

  • Whether or not he calls you or messages you should not make or break your life. If he doesn’t call or message you, you will find someone who will.
  • Why are you waiting around for him to call you or message you? Get busy. Do something to distract yourself. Time is not going to pass any faster by sitting by the phone.
  • Stop trying to read too much into patterns of communication. Just because he wrote you every hour of every day last week, doesn’t mean this week is going to look the same. Life has ebbs and flows. Don’t always base whether or not you think you’re going to hear from a guy on patterns of communication.  Not hearing from him for few hours or a day doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll never hear from him again. As best you can, try to relax and not put time pressures on the evolution of your relationship.
  • What are you waiting for? In cases where you want to talk and are just questioning if you should message or call him, why can’t you talk? Why does he always have to be the one initiating? If you never initiate, how is this guy ever going to know you like him? It’s OK to initiate from time to time. If you feel like talking, call him or message him. I’m sure he would love to hear from you.
  • Stop trying to interpret his social media while you’re waiting for him to call you or message you. It’s interpretive. Unless you hear from him directly, do not make assumptions.
  • Try not to overanalyze the last time you talked or saw him. The last thing you said or talked about ultimately will not make or break a relationship that is meant to be.
  • If you don’t hear back from him, it’s his loss. You don’t want someone who isn’t going to talk or make an effort with you.

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