When You Have Lost The One You Love

When your heart aches and you long to see them, hear them, feel them, hold them. When you feel like you can’t quite catch your breath. When the thought of them never escapes you and as hard as you try, they are always on your mind. When every hour of the day feels like a slow crawl. When you are…

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No One Is You And This Is Your True Power

Today, instead of comparing yourself to another, what if you focused on how amazing you are? You have your own unique journey to explore. When we compare and try and live our lives through someone else’s journey, we dim our own internal light. No one is you and this is your true power. When it comes to dating and heartbreak,…

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Post Breakup Strategies: You Only Have To Worry About Getting Through Today

I HATE that feeling post breakup when you wake up in the morning and for a split second, you’ve forgotten that you’re broken up and no longer going to see that person again. Then the memory of your recent breakup comes flooding back in and you’re in utter hell. It’s like the breakup has happened all over again and your…

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Post Breakup Strategies: What To Do

Okay so you feel like you’ve lost your best friend. They might as well have died, because it’s as if they did.   Not being able to see them and talk to them anymore can feel like pure torture. You want to see them but at the same time the thought of running into them unexpected is horrifying, especially if it’s…

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Recurring Patterns In Relationships: If You Don’t Learn The Lesson Now, It Will Return And Return

I have this old piece of paper on my fridge. I have no idea who gave it to me or where it came from but it lists “7 universal/spiritual laws”, one of which always stands out to me when it comes to dating and relationships.  It speaks to the recurring patterns in relationships we often face while learning our life…

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Uncertain Times In Dating AND How To Handle The “Not Sure”

Knowing what to do when you don’t know what to do, can be extremely anxiety provoking, especially when it comes to the uncertain times in dating. I have at times been in what I believed to be a perpetual black hole; Not sure what was going to happen with “Him.” Not sure what was going to happen in my career….

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Are You Making Your Life About THE Relationship?

Do you live your life thinking everything will change once you have the relationship of your dreams in your life? For certain, your life will change immensely when your partner comes into your life. Relationships are all about lessons and growth, helping us to meet our full potential. But that person in reality is not going to be perfect themselves…

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It’s Not Your Job To Save Someone

I have had a pattern in the past of staying too long in some of my relationships with men. They say all the right things but are often incapable of fully opening up and being present. Because I have the gift of seeing the good in everyone and their potential, it takes me a while to remove myself from these…

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Waiting For Him To Call You Or Message You?

Some food for thought when you’re waiting for him to call you or message you: Whether or not he calls you or messages you should not make or break your life. If he doesn’t call or message you, you will find someone who will. Why are you waiting around for him to call you or message you? Get busy. Do…

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Do You Have Self-Love? Try These Self-love Exercise’s

It’s extremely hard to make anything work in your dating life when you don’t have self-love. Placing pressure on someone else to fulfill the inner love that you do not have for yourself, can be a lot for a partner to handle. This pressure often results in the implosion of the relationship. The journey to true self-love is a long…

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