One of the biggest lessons one can learn is that when something leaves your life it is meant to.
What I mean by this is, if it is meant to be in your life it will either stay or find it’s way back around again to you. What is meant to be in your life will find its way to you, in the perfect time. No amount of fighting, manipulation or holding on will make things happen any sooner than they’re meant to.
I used to kick up a fight literally when my relationships would end, holding on for dear life to these men. On the other side, sometimes I would stay in relationships that were not serving me, way past when they had fulfilled their purpose and lesson.
Then I started to embrace the art of letting go.
Holding on tight will not make things happen any sooner or make things better if they’re not meant to get better.
Let go and let what is meant to happen for you, happen.
The great thing about destiny is, there is a bigger plan. Once we can learn to let go of what is not serving us, we start moving through life a lot easier. When we fight what is meant for us and choose free will to hold onto relationships or things that have outlived us, we begin to feel depressed and unsatisfied. It literally provokes feelings in you in order to make you so feel uncomfortable, you have almost no choice but to move through the fear of the pain and let go.
But you always have the choice – hold on or let go and let what is meant for you come in.
Embracing the art of letting go has been truly liberating for me and scary at times. You never know exactly what is going to happen when you let go, but I promise you, letting go of the person or situation that is not serving you will only bring the right thing in.
Are you holding onto a relationship that is no longer serving you?
Do you feel like you’re meant to be somewhere else but are afraid of change?
Are you holding onto someone for dear life out of fear of them leaving you?
What is meant for you will stay or come back around.
What is not meant for you will always leave.
Let go. Loosen your grip a bit and focus back on your love of yourself.
Let what is meant for you come in, it always does.